Figure it out
I write about figuring out your money: I’m learning more and more about what that actually means
We were sitting around a dinner table talking about life. My older sister, who I look up to a lot, said something about raising independent kids that made me grab my phone to jot a note down to write about.
On having boys out of the house, married, and doing life on their own she said…
“As they’re growing up it’s our responsibility to teach them how to figure it out. Then we have to let them go figure it out.”
They’re still there for the phone calls and questions and guidance as the boys seek it out, but it’s on them now to trust what they’ve learned and figure out life as it comes.
Money
I’m building a community for people to do this very thing with their money.
Or should I say it this way:
I’m building a community for you to do this very thing with your money.
It started with personal experience, and then conversation after conversation with others encountering much of the same.
Life costs money.
We try to understand it. We want to do well with it. But failed attempts to actually figure it out this time leave us hoping it will all just work out somehow.
Then we keep on stuck in this lifecycle.
Living with this approach toward our money inevitably leads to a roller coaster of emotions.
Payday feels good.
Paying the mortgage does not.
Neither does the unexpected repair we weren’t ready for.
Opening the checking account to see where our balance stands is even worse.
The impulse buy is a shot of adrenaline, even though it’s with money we might or might not have.
But then payday rolling back around settles things once again for a moment before the ride starts back up again.
Who do you know that is living life like this? Would you share this with them?
Life doesn’t have to exist like this.
System
If you’re ready to begin shedding the frustration and stress money has brought for so long, I’d love to invite you into The Club.
It’s not really about figuring out your money.
It’s about figuring out your system.
If you’re looking for another Substack publication to give you a quick sound-bite that’s nice to contemplate, this isn’t the one for you.
However, if you need to really take action this time, to receive practical guidance, and, most importantly, to be held accountable, this is the place for you.
I’m committed to helping you figure it out. So you can go figure it out.
Here’s how…
There are 3 ways to solidify your membership. Consider which one will make you feel part of something. One that will inspire you to make the move you know you need to this time around.
1) The Digital Guide
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2) The Community
This is the best value with the most support. Upgrade your subscription to paid and enjoy access to myself as your new coach, support from The Wayfinder Club community, and step-by-step guidance to figure out your money system. The Playbook is a series of posts that will walk you through. Extra resources are in there as well. And you’ve got unlimited messaging access to me to answer questions.
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3) Private one-on-one financial design
If you’re ready to activate your system, but would like to offload the process, I’ll build the entire thing for you. Through our collaboration, we’ll get your system up and running so you can get moving on life. This is a year of coaching with me, which means guaranteed progress and ongoing support as we equip you to maintain what we will build.
It’s time
It’s cool for me to personally see where this thought, “how to figure out your money” has evolved to. It’s a process. It requires your commitment. But it will result in your success. I hope you’ll join in.
I want you to figure it out. For good. I hope you feel the same. Let’s figure it out. So you can really be ready with everything you need to go figure it out this time.